When you are chatting with the beautiful transgender women on these best free dating apps, have you ever had such experience of being ghosted without knowing the reason. You may think you did nothing wrong and you are innocent, but actually you are not. You might have made a big mistake due to lack of relative education. Here as a transgender woman who has been looking for love online, I would like to give you some advice.
Look, I know we are sexy and we are glad you think that way, but the least thing we like is to be asked with some offensive questions or be treated with ignorance. Therefore, if you want to treat transgender community properly or maybe get into our pants, you should stop sending the following messages to transgender people:
You are so brave! I already know that. When you tell a transgender person how brave they are to live a life with all the accusations and opposes and without feeling guilty, you may think you sound absolute polite and friendly. However, for us transgender people, this feels like being a display at the zoo. Saying this means you actually don’t approve nor understand our situation. You do not know at all about our world. Why we transition and why we decide to change ourselves. We are glad you respect us and the experience we had, but we also want to respect the fact that we are all human-being. We all need to do something to live real.
You look just like a man/woman. I never knew you were a woman/man. I never knew you are a transgender. We look just like women and yes we are, because we are women. Congratulating on us for being comply with the gender identification we portray ourselves to be is not a compliment. There is a simple thing to remember: we are just the gender we said we are no matter it is in accordance with your mind or not. We do not need your approval.
What it is like down there? Just like many other transgender people, I always have such dream for a new world where all these shits won’t be any problem. If you are attracted to me and I am attracted to you, then it’s a match. Besides, we have many ways to let sexual life to work for us, instead of otherwise. Nothing can be worse than asking a transgender woman whether she had her penis cut or not. Instead, if you ask what words we prefer to refer to our private part, that would be a plus for you.
If I hooked up with you, does that make me bi or gay? If you are attracted to both women and men, then you are bisexual. But if you think you are gay or bi just because you are dating a ts dating partner, then you need to sit down and clear your mind and get educated.
